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I had gay sex with my best friend

Ok, this is very hard for me to write as i have always considered myself straight, but over the last year some events that have happened have made me doubt this


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Menu Sections. Ask Brian: I found my boyfriend and his best friend sweaty and alone together - are they having a gay affair?

Originally, him and your boyfriend and him and you were friends separately. I know this is a common problem, but I can't seem to get through to my girlfriend on it.

I looked at the PS4, it was off. Recently myself and my sister were in a supermarket close to his house so I decided to drop in, mainly because I had my sister with me as back up if his nasty brothers were there. My strange feeling was only furthered by the fact he didn't bother to hug or kiss me like he normally would. I need some practical advice in achieving the impossible, turning down a request to be a bridesmaid without destroying a friendship. One more thing. Although your boyfriend wasn't sweating profusely - but maybe he's just a really lazy lover. Maybe he had just completed the ice bucket challenge and was mortified because it's so tragically There is some level of distrust in your relationship already for you to even think they were fooling around- and you need to reflect on where that's coming from.

As we stand there in the door way looking around suspiciously I couldn't help but think that they were doing something sexual.

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I don't really get on with my boyfriend's brothers, so I always call ahead when I'm visiting to make sure he's home and I don't have to deal with them. Facebook Twitter Whatsapp. How can I have a baby with a liar? Brian Laundrie tells police why Gabby Petito scratched his face. There's nothing wrong with being gay, but why put me through that if you are sleeping with your friend. Just as we went to leave the door swung open, but no one was standing there so I went inside.

Anyway I really didn't care I didn't think anything of it. Well, unless you're like me and enjoy the opportunity to meddle because you love some drama by making reference to former one night stands. My boyfriend finally mumbled something about the two of them playing FIFA for a few hours and it was intense.

You need to be comfortable. The sweat certainly suggests it was physically taxing on his friend. I'm also thinking he opened the door thinking it was his brother because they weren't there at the time this had taken place, which was also strange because they are always there. But obviously his suggestion also has me wondering if he is gay.

Do you trust him? That would suggest there's no family pressure for him to remain closeted, but that obviously isn't the only factor. I wouldn't read too much into his requests for you in the bedroom you may have noticed we edited out a lot of that, it risked turning my column into Fifty Shades of Brian - but if there's demand we can make that a thing. Maybe they had been practicing a dance routine. But I feel now that he's jealous that they are OUT and he doesn't know how to be. How do I begin?

One word of caution on your sex life however - he should never pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. This situation is obviously causing you a lot of stress, and you really don't need that if you are expecting. We were ringing the doorbell for a while but there was no response, so we just assumed no one was home. He can suggest whatever he wants, but he should never pressure you or try to punish you after you turn him down.

Pharmacist explains how to correctly use an antigen test. How can I trust him? We are having a baby and I'm really nervous that he's done this behind my back. If you don't, well that's a major issue assuming he's not having a secret gay affair, in which case we'll rank the ole gay affair as first on the list of major issues. My boyfriend bought his first car at the start of the year and I think he's using it as some sort of sleazy sex motel. How can I allow them to still be friends?

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That's not on. You're having together, so regardless of what unfolds you need to try and remain civil with each other. Brian, Please help me figure this out, it's been haunting since it happened. It's now five years later and they are still friends and me and my boyfriend are a great couple, or so I thought. Close Stock photo. Video shows horrific fight beside Garden of Remembrance in Dublin. I'm really confused. I looked at the TV, it was off.

I don't think that's because your friend was secretly madly in love with your boyfriend, it's more just the change in dynamic between the three of you. Search Search. My sister and I left as we walked to the car she said "well that was weird" so it wasn't a feeling I just had, she had it too. Do you have a problem you'd like some advice on? How can I get over this abuse?

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I asked what was going on and gave an awkward laugh, because the scene was so strange. Let's start with your friend distancing himself from you after you became involved with your boyfriend who was originally his friend. Decide if you trust him, and then set your mind at rest by discussing the incident with him - but not from a place of judgement or suspicion.

Now that doesn't mean they were fooling around, but they were possibly up to something they didn't want you to know about. My friends are getting annoyed with how little I've been going out lately. The homophobic behaviour you say he exhibits when he sees a gay couple could also be a worry - sometimes the most homophobic people are secretly gay themselves and use it to deflect. Most people don't enjoy the feeling of being a third wheel. My girlfriend has decided she wants to be one of these social media "influencers". I met my current boyfriend through a family friend a few years ago, and after a while we started seeing each other.

Dannielle says:

Based off yourI think there has to be a lot more going on than you've disclosed. My boyfriend was standing in the sitting room acting as though he was cleaning up his home.

Facebook Twitter. I declined his suggestion and he went into a huff and he wouldn't have sex with me for weeks. Maybe his friend had a particularly aggressive curry the night before and had just returned from the bathroom. While his friend was sitting on the couch sweating like he had just run a five mile sprint. Anytime my boyfriend sees a gay couple or a gay person on TV he always has something negative to say.

Kristin says:

Video of the Day. A new coffee shop opened a few months ago beside where I work in Dublin. It haunts my dreams. I'd like to think in everyone is free to come out if they're gay, but sadly that's still not the case. For the last few months he's been pressuring me to change things up in the bedroom, if you get me. Why is my libido so low?

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However it would be a little odd for him to be secretly gay but his brothers facilitate him by leaving the house for him to fool around. When you and your boyfriend became involved, he probably felt a little out of place suddenly.

As our romance developed, my friend seemed to distance himself from me specifically and I think he was unhappy for us. You don't just walk in on your boyfriend and his friend in an awkward situation and immediately jump to assuming they're secret gay lovers.

You need to put yourself and your baby first here. I'll be honest - it is odd that your boyfriend claim they had been playing video games yet all the equipment was unplugged.

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