Spanking as therapy
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Ideally the spanking should be given in silence, allowing the smacking sound to be the only noise.
Many men who only seek out women to spank them have lost the connection to the male counterpart in their lives, like a father figure. Then I allow them some quiet time to think and recover from the discipline session. They need to learn to walk the walk so to speak and start to take a more active part in the disciplinary decisions when it comes to their children instead of letting the wife make all the decisions and not allowing him his parental right to intervene.
This is a relatively small of people, and spanking therapy will not work for those who do not agree that they need it. Counting licks and stupid chants like "please sir may I have another" distract attention away from the spanking and reduces it's effects. At the start of a session you should both sit down and discuss anything the spankee feels he has done to deserve a more harsh or lighter spanking.
I deliver the spanking with no games. For these people regular spankings usually once a week are given, along with a reminder of the things they need to work on. Men sometimes have to be on the receiving end of a good spanking in order to understand their part in the family when it comes to disciplining their own children.
These men are men who have been raised and controlled and punished primarily by a female mother, grandmother, auntand have not connected to the male counterpart father, grandfather, uncletherefore it is more important for men to be spanked by another man than a woman to break the cycle, as women should only be spanked by another woman.
After the spanking, I hug the person I have just spanked, and forgive them for what they did to earn the spanking with a reminder to avoid that behavior in the future. Never use spanking as foreplay to sex unless you are upfront with the other person that this is just for sexual release and not for anything that will cause marks and bruising and extreme pain, but sensual light slaps upon the bare buttocks.
Men have become too docile in most families today. An audible reinforcement of the discipline.
A beginner’s guide to spanking therapy
Being spanked clears their minds, allowing them to find their focus. I will only speak to give necessary commands, such as adjusting the spankee's position if he has moved.
Next, I will address the things you need to be reminded of, and the things I believe you need to continue to work on. For example, for an unmotivated adult male I may say, "I want you to continue to focus on your work, as well as keeping your personal life in order.
*spanking* as a form of therapy? yes, you read that right!
This is when the severity of the punishment is determined. Unwarranted spankings spankings where no crime has been committed and no therapy agreement has been reached are abusive by nature, and should always be avoided.
Which by the way, I do not appreciate.